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    September 19

    关于爱情

    刚看完众多人推荐的 he is just not that into you. 很贴近生活. 很多事情本身可以一语道破, 身在其中的时候却没有去思考的能力, 爱情本身就与理智无关, 当你能理智思考的时候, 就要想想这还是不是爱情了.

    关于结婚症候群
    国内小姑娘过了25就开始考虑这个问题, 奔三的时候家里也开始奔走着急, 如果过了三十还没朋友, 就近乎要千夫指了. 国外虽然没有这么夸张, 男人却很晚才会承诺, 造就大批晚婚族.

     一个朋友曾经跟我说, 结婚从来就不是男人这方面提出的要求, 就像电影中所说, 在一起久了, 女的想结婚, 就结了. 他说他三十岁生日的时候才觉得自己长大了, 之前都是儿戏. 而结婚更是不敢想像.

    结婚一直是女人的一块心病, 搞得自己患得患失, 好像离那个deadline越近, 自己离真爱还是遥遥无期. 很大一部分因素都是社会压力造成. 不妨看看欲望都市这种倡导女性独立的片子, 再看看周围的结婚的人是否幸福, 然后想想自己为什么想结婚, 想清楚再结不迟. 不然只有后悔一辈子.

    关于sparkle
    有人说过, 女的在见到一个男的的前几秒, 就知道会不会有继续发展的可能性. 这点我不得不同意女人超敏锐的直觉, 完全没有根据可循, 却几乎100%奏效. 男人是不是这样我不知道. 如果两个人气味相投, 气场会变得很独特, 你会觉察到对方的一举一动. 期待一个来电和短信, 大脑完全不受控制.

    诱惑与取舍
    电影里描述的那段婚姻, 有很大的代表性. 自己可能觉得很完美的爱情, 当遇到极大诱惑的时候, 可能一开始抗拒, 后来却又向往更多drama. 男人喜欢刺激, 女人喜欢幻想. 背叛的第一步最犹豫, 之后就会上瘾. 结果都是破坏性的, 一旦失去, 就再也弥补不回了.

    说不的人, 收获安全感. 说yes的人, 有更多种可能性.

    Comments (8)

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    jimmywrote:
    爱情稍纵即逝,爱情不会演绎很久......
    Oct. 19
    汤汤wrote:
    亲爱的,生活本身可以掌控的实在太少。深思熟虑的东西多了,生命就象步步为营的战旅,倒不如顺其自然,听从自己内心的声音。其实结婚与否并不重要,只要是一直保持恋爱的心情就好呢。呵呵,依照你的性格,会不会象《欲望城市》里的沙拉一样呢。
    喜欢你的一切,愿你拥有自己想要的幸福。
    Sept. 22
    chenwrote:
    我觉得气味相投的很多阿,但是对方好不好闻根后来结不结婚没关系把?
    Sept. 20
    Danni ZOUwrote:
    movie版的我根本看不下去, 太假了.
    what i mean about sex and the city is the drama
    but if you really love sombody, forget about the dramas!
    Sept. 19
    elaine zhangwrote:
    嫩说的sparkle貌似对我不适用啊。。。
    Sept. 19
    明扬 陈wrote:
    关于sparkle我有体会,哈哈哈
    Sept. 19
    Boluwrote:
    I like He's Just Not That Into You too, except the ending for Jennifer Aniston. If her boy friend knows marriage is not for him, then don't pretend to change just because being afraid of losing her, otherwise he will just become Ben, who was telling Anna that he's got married ONLY because "if you date with a girl for more than 10 years and you don't marry her, you are a axxhole" (something like that). Gigi and Alex are very very cute though.

    I used to like the tv series of Sex and City, until I saw the movie version. So disappointing. But in any event, women in the States, even in NYC, do not really live that way as in the TV series. It would be ideal if we can marry Mr. Right (Mr. Big) eventually. But we all live in reality, and marriage is not about the wedding or saying yes. The movie concludes right after the wedding. We all know why.

    Just my two cents.
    Sept. 19
    坤 莫wrote:
    呵。。我觉得爱情是感性思考,婚姻是理性活动。
    Sept. 19

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